Name: The Truth About NoFap (Julien Blanc Shares His Controversial Take On The Matter!)
Uploaded: 2018-08-14T10:09:21.000Z
Duration: 6 min 34 s
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it's called you know masturbating or masturbating to porn.

Let's get a little technical with this fapping.

every once in a while you're inspired to cum.

Just cause, cause it feels good and why not?

And we'll just define that cumming out of inspiration,

you were inspired to cum authentically, genuinely.

Inspirational Fapping. (audience chuckles)

Now what happens though is that because it feels so good,

And that's when you run away from all the shit

that you hate about yourself and then it turns

you feel fucking awesome and you just want to fucking cum.

Sometimes you're sitting at home and you feel kind of bored,

and you're like aw shit I fucking being with myself

maybe if I cum I'll forget for a little while.

And desperational fapping is you need it.

And you're like I must cum, I must cum, I must cum.

This is what you kind of want to get rid of.

what it says is just stop fapping all together.

Let's just get rid of all of this never fap.

so much you just can't function in society.

You're hanging out with your friends like,

(audience laughing) Like you can't get a job,

because you're fapping the whole time at work.

However, realize that it doesn't get to the cause,

the cause is the shit you hate about yourself

Get to the cause, stop running away from it,

and then you'll remove the fapping out of desperation

and all you'll be left with is the inspiration fap.

And it's the same by the way with eating too by the way.

Okay there's eating, inspirational eating.

where you're not eating cause you're inspired to,

you're eating to escape yourself or to stuff shit down.

You're running away from this and your escape is food.

For me food is like one of my number one escapes by the way.

That's why if you guys even look in terms of me going

through the media scandal I got pretty heavy after.

Now the solution that most people in society have,

in including with fapping is we just shame it.

It's that you think okay someone's eating,

they're binge eating and that one of the reasons

out of many they could be a little bit obese.

You think that by shaming them they'll stop it.

But in reality by shaming them you're just adding

more shit to hate about themselves to run away from.

In reality we need a more empathetic approach