Name: This is WHY we keep FALLING IN LOVE with TOM HIDDLESTON
Uploaded: 2017-09-21T02:49:43.000Z
Duration: 3 min 54 s
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Well, at Toronto, it was important, you know, because I had two films there, and I felt a responsibility to represent them.

I mean, I like going to events, and stuff like that.

But I don't have to take selfies with people like you do, probably.

I don't have to, either, but I choose to, sometimes.

So this movie's pretty scary, there's ghosts in it, which I think it's really scary.

A lot of people have been asking me that question.

And I can't think of a concise answer apart from to say.

'Cause I've had some people explain, sort of give me scientific evidence as to why they're physically not possible.

And I love the Ghostbusters, so if there were no ghosts, there'd be no Ghostbusters.

- So maybe we need the ghosts. -That's a good point.

But do you believe there's anything after death?

Because if there's ghosts, there must be something after death, too.

My hunch is we just get this one shot, you know?

At least, that's the only one I'm conscious of.

That's just... I don't know where that comes from, apart from just a gut feeling.

The lights go out, they go out, and you go back into the ground.

It's a nice feeling, in a way, it's comforting, 'cause it makes you try and live your life to the fullest, I think.

So, another thing I liked about this movie is the romance.

Back then, it was so easy to fall in love.

You can just look at someone, and then you're like, "We're in love."

That doesn't... that doesn't happen to you now?

Do you think it has changed? Was it much easier before?

Oh, I think falling in love is the same as it's always been.

I think it's surprising, and shocking, and chaotic, and beautiful as it's always been.

I think you can't... you know, you can't...

You can't legislate for who you fall in love with.

I think the structures for how we try to organize it intellectually have changed.

But evolutionarily, we haven't evolved, um, at that kind of a rate.

I think, you fall in love with somebody, you can't explain why you do it, you just do.

I mean, I think maybe it changes when you get a little older.

'Cause when you're younger, it's much easier to just get that crush on someone, and then...

You know, you think it's something more maybe than it is.

And then... but when you get older, you have more of a checklist.

But is that... but if you have a checklist, is that really love?

That might be someone you're trying to sync up with, and live with, or someone you're trying to share your life with, or share something with.

You're trying to construct a relationship where you can run in parallel and work together, but that's... is that love?

I think real love is about acceptance, and about truth, and about vulnerability.

Yeah, and then I think in that...you know, when you really can accept someone for who they are, and that's what real love is.